Better or none

October 22, 2012 § 13 Comments

If you feel like doing something, just go ahead and never look back. Just do it and never regret about it. Live today like it’s your last day.

These phrases familiar enough?

In our everyday life, we are often faced with many obstacles. Big and small. Obstacles in which we need to make decisons sooner or later. To get over that dilemma, we turn to others for advices, sometimes just to brainstorm for any possible solution to resort to.

So, after all that ideas and brilliant opinions and strong analysis, we finally take that one memorable decision. That decision that we swore was the best and would never regret for.

Yet again, you find yourself thinking what could you have done to change that decision you took. Doesn’t matter whether it was days or years ago since that day. You still wondered if there is any better solution, perhaps something that would not have resulted in what you are facing right now.

Now, is that regret?

And you tell yourself, no it isn’t; it’s just something you wish would have been better.

Never really satisfied, that’s what most of us are. Maybe we are just lucky, till we’ve learnt the hard way.

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§ 13 Responses to Better or none

  • CKL says:

    i’ve been thinking bout this too lately…
    it’s not regret…but curious what will happen if we take the other road…wll the things still end up the same? will that be the better decision? =)

    • jenyong says:

      Exactly that kind of feeling! =) Just at some point, you really wondered how much would it have changed. Hm..life! =)

  • Chen says:

    Jenyong, is Malaysia Society in MARJON going to organise any activity recently? Eg. christmas party or malaysian night?

    • jenyong says:

      Not at the time being I’m afraid. We don’t do Christmas party because it’d be our 3 weeks break then. Normally we have CNY celebration, and Malaysian Festival early of the year. =)

  • Chen says:

    Can a non-plymouth university student joins the event? I miss my student life. šŸ˜¦

    • jenyong says:

      Yes of course! We organise the events inviting friends and lecturers, and even the public! Will inform you about any upcoming events! We’re happy to have you there!:D
      Btw, I’m not studying in Plymouth University. Hehe. My university is MARJON, University College of St Mark & St John at Derriford. Not the university at town.

  • Chen says:

    Oh great! Do let me know if there’s any event. That’s mean that u will post the event information in your blog and I will be informed through ur blog is it?

    • jenyong says:

      Err, honestly I don’t really update my blog until something has happened..lol. Maybe I can inform you from other alternatives like email or Facebook? It’s a lot easier because I’m more active there than in blog nowadays. Haha.

  • Chen says:

    lol no problem! My name on facebook is Heng Chen Chuan, add me there. šŸ˜€

  • Chen says:

    Or what’s ur name on facebook? I can go and search for u. šŸ™‚

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